YOU MADE THE BRAVEST DECISION OF YOUR LIFE. NOW IT'S TIME TO FEEL THE LIFE YOU LEFT FOR.
You told him: "You want to divorce"
You thought you would feel relieved but your whole system is "on".
You didn’t leave just to feel this shaky.
You left because you wanted to feel like you again. Like… peace.
Breath in your chest.
Laughing for real.
Catching your reflection in the mirror and thinking: “There she is.”
Sparkles in your belly not from a man, but because you f* love your life.
But right now?
Your brain is freaking out.
You’re clear, but you’re not calm.
You feel far from you.
You keep thinking: When does it get better?
When do I finally feel like I’m not just surviving the day?
When do I get to be that version of me sitting in the sun, drink in hand, thinking:
“Omg. I did it. This was the best decision ever!"
That’s what She Holds Herself™ is for.
This is the reset your system is begging for.
Because if your brain is still spinning, gripping, second-guessing you won’t build your next best chapter. You won’t live it.
You didn’t leave to fall apart. You left to finally arrive.
This is the bridge. 30 days.
The one between collapse and conviction.
Between “Can I do this?” and “Look at me now.”
We start Feb 15th. Doors close soon. You’ve waited long enough.
You made the bravest move.
Now let’s make it mean something.
I AM READY FOR SHE HOLDS HERSELF >>
I'M READY TO SIT ON A TERRACE, ROSE IN HAND, SUN ON MY SKIN, FEEL DAMN PROUD &
Finally like me.
You Thought It Would Feel Better...
You think you just need to get through this months.
You think the shaky feeling will pass.
That once the logistics are done - the house, the papers, the back-and-forth - you’ll finally breathe.
You tell yourself it’s just the messy middle.
Just stress. Just part of it.
But then… you’re crying in the bathroom again.
You forget what you even opened the fridge for.
You cancel plans because your chest is tight and you can’t explain why.
Your brain screaming and you’re pretending everything is fine.
But …
Your Brain is Still in panic...
You didn't do anything wrong. You’re not asking for too much. And you’re definitely not the “bad guy.”
You’re a woman who made the bravest move of her life and your nervous system is still bracing for impact.
This isn’t about doubt.
You know you made the right decision.
This is about capacity. Your brain hasn’t caught up to the new situation yet. To the possibilities.
And until it does… nothing shifts.
Not your peace. Not your clarity. Not your next chapter.
This is why women get stuck. Not because they’re soft. Because no one ever taught them how to give themselves permission with what they’ve already chosen.
This is your moment to interrupt the spiral. Not with talks. But with real regulation. With getting grip on your nervous system.
The version of you on the other side?
Who gave her kids the best day, slipping on heels, catching her flection, heart steady, lips curled into a quiet smile, thinking (just before meeting her friends) : “Fuck. I made it.”
She’s not a fantasy. She’s waiting for you to catch up.
I know this is you,
you need She Holds Herself™
I AM READY TO HOLD MYSELF >>
MEET ISABELLE ULENAERS
Hi, I’m Isabelle Ulenaers the founder of The Untamed Women.
I created She Holds Herself™ because I got tired of watching brilliant, capable women walk away from marriages only to spiral in guilt, doubt, and emotional chaos for months (sometimes years), thinking that time alone would fix it.
It doesn’t. Because this isn’t about time.
It’s about your system still living like you never left.
Still repeating the same patterns, the same live, the same relations.
I am a trained Licensed psychologist*, spent 20+ years working with high-achieving women; CEOs, public figures, powerhouses. I am a psychologist, studied several psychotherapy
I’ve spoken on global stages.
Sat across from women at their highest highs… and their deepest, most private unraveling. I’ve seen how many women lose themselves in the name of being good, loyal, or strong.
And I burned the whole damn rulebook.
Because real freedom?
Doesn’t come from more journaling, more mindset, more “just breathe through it.”
It comes from rewiring the patterns that are running your life underneath the clarity.
From stabilizing your nervous system so your brain can finally stop the panic.
From shifting who you are in your cells, not just who you say you want to be.
That’s what this work is.
It’s not another program.
It’s breaking with old dated believes that divorce is bad.
It's women changing history.
Because you didn’t leave to feel worse.
You left to feel like you again.
Let’s make that your reality.
Now, not years from now.
* for if you want more details: I’ve studied multiple psychotherapy methods, trained in EMDR, hypnotherapy and EFT, mastered neuropsychology and behavioral science, and hold certifications in professional mediation, positive psychology, and conflict management. I also studied energy work like Master in Reiki, Kundalini and Merkaba.
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