Which Emotional Bracing Pattern Is Keeping You Stuck Even Though You Know You Want a Divorce?

Take this 3‑minute quiz to finally see what’s unconsciously holding you back, even though you already decided inside.

You know the marriage is over.
But your brain won't move.

This quiz reveals the hidden protection loop, you’re protecting yourself with.

And once you know which protection loop you’re in,
you can finally interrupt it 
and move.

Take the Free Quiz → Discover Your Bracing Pattern
This quiz doesn’t push you to do anything. It simply shows you what your nervous system is protecting you from so you can move forward when you are ready. It's 100% Private.

You’re not crazy.
You’re not confused.
It’s not your hormones.
You’re a high-functioning woman in a nervous system lock.

What you are… is bracing.

Your brain is not betraying you, it’s bracing to keep you safe.

You don’t need a new mindset.
You need to understand the safety code that’s running underneath it.

If you don’t understand how your body protects you,
you don’t have the key to open the cage. 

This quiz reveals what your brain is doing behind the scenes,  so you can stop negotiating with your truth… and start leading like a woman who trusts it.

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this is for the woman who runs a team, makes big decisions…
but can’t say the truth at her own kitchen table.

 

She doesn’t “lack clarity.”
She lacks nervous system safety.

She’s smart. She’s self-aware. She’s already admitted the truth to herself quietly, in the mirror, or on a sleepless night: she wants to divorce. 
Maybe she told him, maybe filled or maybe she's just thinking it ...
But her brain is still scanning for danger; afraid of the fallout, the spiral, the shame.

3 minutes.
6 questions.
One answer you’ve been avoiding.

your brain isn’t the problem.
it’s the key.

 

If you’re looping, second-guessing, or hesitating to act on what you already know…
It’s not mindset. It’s old patterns and learned roles and your brain is just running them on autopilot.


This quiz identifies your bracing blueprint so you stop labeling yourself as “confused” and start seeing yourself as self-protective. Because if you don’t understand how your brain protects you, it will keep pulling you back, no matter what you try.


What you’ll learn:
✅ Which bracing pattern is running your nervous system(freeze, fawn, guilt, shame)
✅ What your brain is trying to protect you from and how to shift it
✅ What the pattern costs you
✅ The exact next step to shift out of it

This is clarity that lives in your body, not just your brain.
And once you see it, you can never unsee it.

Show Me What’s Keeping Me Stuck→ Take the Quiz Now

this isn’t who you are.
it’s what you’ve been carrying.

You’re not confused. You’re bracing.
You’re not stuck. You’re scanning.
You don’t need more time. You need to trust the gut feeling that’s already living in your body.

This quiz delivers:
🧠 A personal nervous-system snapshot
🪞 An  insight into your inner patterning
⚡ A micro cue to start acting like the woman who’s already free

This is a mirror.
It points directly to the woman underneath and gives her back the steering wheel.

this 3-minute quiz has changed the divorce journey for 1,000+ women who thought they were just confused.

you’re not lost. you’re bracing.
and that means you’re closer than you think.

You don’t need more therapy, more time, or one more person to validate your knowing.
You need a map. A mirror. A moment of nervous system (your brain's and body's) truth.


This quiz is that moment.


In less than 3 minutes, you’ll find out exactly what’s going on in your body and what to do with it.

 
Find Out What’s Really Holding You Back
meet the modern day therapist mogul behind it all

meet isabelle ulenaers

I’m not your average therapist.
Because The Untamed Room™ isn’t your average transformation.

I didn’t build this to inspire women, I built it to liberate them.

For over 20 years, I’ve worked at the intersection of psychology, trauma, nervous system healing,neurospychology and female identity reformation.

I’ve spoken on stages. Been featured in top-tier magazines and national TV shows. Worked with high-performing women, leaders, and celebrities. And helped thousands of women stop performing and start leading their lives, on their own terms.

But none of that compares to this:

I walked out of my own marriage.
Burned down a “good life” that was never my life.
And rebuilt everything, from scratch. Literally. 

This isn’t theory.
It’s not mindset fluff.
It’s not some journal-prompt healing circle.

This is the system behind every woman who’s ever whispered:

“There has to be more than this…”

The Untamed Room™ is not coaching.
It’s a rebirth.
Your life doesn’t get better by thinking about it.
It gets better by rebuilding it from the inside out.

And the real power?

It’s not that this system works.

It’s that once you’re in it, you’ll finally feel what it means to come home to yourself… and stay there.

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This quiz is trauma-informed and designed for emotional insight, not clinical diagnosis. Your results are confidential and will be delivered directly to your inbox, along with a cue to help you move forward. This is not therapy. It’s leadership, of your nervous system, your exit, and your next chapter.

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