You’ve already made the decision. But your brain won’t let you move.
Find out how your brain is protecting you and what happens when you stop bracing and start leading.
You’re not indecisive.
It’s not your hormones.
And you’re definitely not confused.
What you are… is bracing.
Your brain is not betraying you, it’s bracing to keep you safe.
You don’t need a new mindset.
You need to understand the safety code that’s running underneath it.
It’s is running a chemical loop of protection (freeze, fawn, guilt, or shame) that’s keeping you stuck in a chapter you’ve already outgrown. Especially when that truth means saying, ‘This marriage isn’t right for me anymore.’ That’s when your brain hits the brakes even as your soul hits go.
If you don’t understand how your body protects you, you don’t have the key to open the cage.
This quiz reveals what your brain is doing behind the scenes, so you can stop negotiating with your truth… and start leading like a woman who trusts it.
This is for the woman who runs a team, makes big decisions…
But can’t say the truth at her own kitchen table.
She doesn’t “lack clarity.”
She lacks nervous system safety.
She’s smart. She’s self-aware. She’s already admitted the truth to herself quietly, in the mirror, or on a sleepless night: she wants to divorce. But her brain is still scanning for danger — afraid of the fallout, the spiral, the shame.
This quiz interrupts the chemical loop that’s kept her performing peace instead of claiming freedom.
Because clarity doesn’t come from journaling harder.
It comes from decoding what your body’s already trying to say.
Your Brain Isn’t the Problem.
It’s the Key.
If you’re looping, second-guessing, or hesitating to act on what you already know…
It’s not mindset. It’s old patterns and learned roles and your brain is just running them on autopilot.
This quiz identifies your bracing blueprint so you stop labeling yourself as “confused” and start seeing yourself as self-protective. Because if you don’t understand how your brain protects you, it will keep pulling you back, no matter what you try.
What you’ll learn:
✅ What phase of bracing you’re in (freeze, fawn, guilt, shame)
✅ What your brain is trying to protect you from and how to shift it
✅ How to move from reactivity to regulation, without collapsing or overfunctioning.
This is clarity that lives in your body, not just your brain.
And once you see it, you can never unsee it.
This Isn’t Who You Are.
It’s What You’ve Been Carrying.
You’re not confused. You’re bracing.
You’re not stuck. You’re scanning.
You don’t need more time. You need to trust the gut feeling that’s already living in your body.
This quiz delivers:
🧠 A personal nervous-system snapshot🪞 An insight into your inner patterning
⚡ A micro cue to start acting like the woman who’s already free
This is a mirror.
It points directly to the woman underneath and gives her back the steering wheel.
This 3-minute quiz has changed the divorce journey for 1,000+ women who thought they were just confused.
You’re Not Lost. You’re Bracing.
And That Means You’re Closer Than You Think.
You don’t need more therapy, more time, or one more person to validate your knowing.
You need a map. A mirror. A moment of nervous system (your brain's and body's) truth.
This quiz is that moment.
In less than 3 minutes, you’ll find out exactly what’s going on in your body — and what to do with it.
Find Out What’s Really Holding You Back
meet the modern day therapist mogul behind it all
MEET Isabelle Ulenaers
I’m not your average therapist.
Because The Untamed Room™ isn’t your average transformation.
I didn’t build this to inspire women, I built it to liberate them.
For over 20 years, I’ve worked at the intersection of psychology, trauma, nervous system healing,neurospychology and female identity reformation.
I’ve spoken on stages. Been featured in top-tier magazines and national TV shows. Worked with high-performing women, leaders, and celebrities. And helped thousands of women stop performing and start leading their lives, on their own terms.
But none of that compares to this:
I walked out of my own marriage.
Burned down a “good life” that was never my life.
And rebuilt everything, from scratch. Literally.
This isn’t theory.
It’s not mindset fluff.
It’s not some journal-prompt healing circle.
This is the system behind every woman who’s ever whispered:
“There has to be more than this…”
The Untamed Room™ is not coaching.
It’s a rebirth.
Your life doesn’t get better by thinking about it.
It gets better by rebuilding it from the inside out.
And the real power?
It’s not that this system works.
It’s that once you’re in it, you’ll finally feel what it means to come home to yourself… and stay there.