She Leaves

you chose yourself. now release what was never yours to hold.

How to leave clean without collapsing into guilt, shame, or emotional debt. This isn’t about others. It’s about the woman you become once you stop carrying what isn’t yours.

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You finally said it.
Or maybe you’re just about to.
Or maybe you signed the papers and already moved out ….

You expected peace.
But instead, your body is still holding the aftershocks:

→ Explaining a decision that came from deep truth
→ Softening your voice so no one thinks you’re “cold”
→ Catching yourself wondering: “If I’m so sure… why does my chest still tighten?”

Here’s the truth:
You’re not guilty because he was good.
You’re not guilty because he was bad.
You’re not guilty because your kids have to live in two different houses.
You’re guilty because your body was trained to believe that choosing yourself is wrong even when it’s the most honest thing you’ve ever done.

No one taught you how to leave clean.
No one taught you how to stay gone without guilt trying to pull you back into responsibility, caretaking, or emotional debt.

That’s what this cleanse is for.
To free your body from the loyalty you never agreed to carry.

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who is this for

This is for the woman who already chose truth, even when it’s just your secret decision,
but still feels like she needs permission to believe it’s okay.

You’re not confused.
You’re just exhausted from trying to leave “gracefully” while carrying everyone else’s emotions.

This is for the woman who:
✅ Chose divorce, but still feels a flicker of guilt when she finally breathes easier
✅ Keeps softening her truth to make everyone else feel okay
✅ Feels clear in her body, but still apologizes in her mind
✅ Is tired of guilt humming under her peace
✅ Wants to be done — not just legally, but emotionally

You’re not looking for permission.
You’re anchoring your freedom.

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This isn’t about whether he deserves love.
It’s about whether you do, without guilt attached.

Because no matter what kind of man you left, how old your kids are, what your family thinks …

you deserve a life that feels honest, clean, and yours without you feeling like you did something wrong. Like you’re the bad guy.

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You already know, or you already walked out but guilt keeps trying to script the story you’ve already closed.

This isn’t about doubt.
It’s about wiring.

If this sounds familiar:

💥 “I thought I’d feel free… but guilt hits when I see him hurting.”
→ Guilt isn’t truth. It’s a safety pattern your body learned.

💥 “I left, but I’m still acting like his emotional caretaker.”
→ You’ll dissolve the ‘wife-code’ and return to the woman you were underneath it.

💥 “I know what’s true, but I still hesitate to act on it.”
→ Truth without movement becomes self-betrayal. Here, you anchor it in your body.

💥 “Sometimes I cry over what we had… then question everything.”
→ You’ll learn to separate sacred grief from guilty grief — one frees you, one traps you.

💥 “I feel like choosing myself hurts my kids.”
→ You’ll learn how to root safety in truth, not sacrifice.

This isn’t another course.

It’s a recalibration for the woman who’s done carrying emotional debt for a decision that saved her life.

I’m Ready To Learn How →

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why now? because guilt doesn’t expire. it evolves.

If you don’t clear guilt now, it doesn’t disappear.
It reshapes your future.

→ You’ll hold back with your kids — afraid to show how good life feels
→ You’ll shrink in your next relationship — still playing “the good one”
→ You dim your joy — censor your desires — second-guess your instincts
→ And you’ll call it maturity

But it’s not maturity.
It’s unprocessed guilt wearing a grown-up mask.

This isn’t about divorce.
It’s about identity.
And the woman you become next.

I'm ready it to release the guilt

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by the end of she leaves: the guilt cleanse, you won’t just understand guilt.
you’ll outgrow it.

✅ Peace that actually lands in your body — the kind where your shoulders drop and your breath finally moves again.

✅ Truth that feels clean in your mouth — no guilt buzz, no tightening chest, no emotional hangover afterward.

✅ Self-trust that doesn’t flinch — not when he cries, not when he spirals, not when he tries to pull you back into the old dance.

✅ Clarity that doesn’t need defending — not to him, not to your parents, not to the friends who “mean well,” not to anyone.

✅ Motherhood that feels lighter — where your kids get the version of you who’s regulated, present, and alive… not the woman performing strength while carrying guilt.

✅ Compassion without self-sacrifice — you can care without carrying, love without losing yourself, feel without fixing.

✅ A soft gratitude for what was — and an unapologetic devotion to what comes next.

This isn’t about getting over it.
It’s about remembering who you were before guilt convinced you to disappear.

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what's inside:

You’re getting the exact process high-level women use with me privately to break guilt at the root so your body finally matches the clarity you already have.

5 core video lessons

Short. Sharp. Zero fluff. These lessons make guilt make sense so it stops feeling like a moral failing and starts showing up exactly as what it is: conditioning your body hasn’t unlearned yet.

⚡️ Each Lesson Includes:
→ The insight that makes guilt suddenly obvious instead of overwhelming
→ A cue that settles your body in seconds
→ A micro-practice that locks the shift in

These aren’t “processing videos.”
They’re pattern decoders — the ones that make you say:
“Oh my god… this was never mine.”

the guilt reset — subconscious rewiring

“Tapping Through Guilt When Peace Feels Like Betrayal”

This is the shift.
This is where guilt loses its power.

This audio works directly with your subconscious + nervous system so you can:

→ stop the guilt punch before it takes over your whole body
→ stay steady when he spirals, cries, or tries to pull you back
→ feel safe choosing yourself, even when your old identity panics

This is the exact tool my private clients use to collapse spirals in minutes —
not by thinking different thoughts,
but by changing the body that kept dragging them back into old roles.

printable workbook

Not journaling to vent.
Not self-help fluff.

This workbook anchors the woman you’re becoming:
the one who doesn’t apologize for her truth,
who doesn’t shrink her peace,
who doesn’t carry emotional debt that was never hers.

Every page is a recalibration.

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Trusted by more than 1,000 women who refused to go back.

“I already left — why do I need this?”
→ Because you’re still carrying everything in your head.
Divorce ends the marriage.
Guilt keeps it alive.

“I’ve done therapy.”
→ Therapy gave you understanding.
This gives you release.
Not insight — integration.
Not coping — unhooking.

“I don’t have time for another course.”
→ Perfect. This isn’t one. It’s a nervous-system recalibration in bite-size drops made for a woman who leads a full life and still moves fast.

“But he didn’t do anything wrong.”
→ Exactly.

This was never about being right. It’s about being true.
You’re not rejecting him you’re finally choosing you.

“What if I regret this later?”
→ Regret is guilt wearing a different outfit. Your truth doesn’t punish you. It sets you free.

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You left.
Or you’re about to.

But if you don’t clear the guilt now, it doesn’t disappear
it follows you.

Into the way you co-parent.
Into the way you soften yourself for others.
Into the way you shrink your joy so no one feels hurt.
Into your next relationship, where you love… but never fully let yourself receive.

Guilt doesn’t stay in the past.
It becomes a new identity.
A quieter, smaller version of you running the show.

But not this time.

You’re not just leaving.
You’re leaving clean.

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and stops punishing you for choosing yourself.

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She Leaves: The Guilt Cleanse Video Lessons
The Guilt Reset — Subconscious Rewiring
Printable Workbook

you already chose yourself
or you’re right at the edge of saying it out loud.

now make sure you don’t take the guilt with you.

this is your clean break:
from shame,
from loops,
from roles you were trained to play
but never belonged to.

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meet the modern day therapist mogul behind it all

meet
isabelle ulenaers

I’m not your average therapist.
Because The Untamed Room™ isn’t your average transformation.

I didn’t build this to inspire women, I built it to liberate them.

For over 20 years, I’ve worked at the intersection of psychology, trauma, nervous system healing,neurospychology and female identity reformation.

I’ve spoken on stages. Been featured in top-tier magazines and national TV shows. Worked with high-performing women, leaders, and celebrities. And helped thousands of women stop performing and start leading their lives, on their own terms.

But none of that compares to this:

I walked out of my own marriage.
Burned down a “good life” that was never my life.
And rebuilt everything, from scratch. Literally.

This isn’t theory.
It’s not mindset fluff.
It’s not some journal-prompt healing circle.

This is the system behind every woman who’s ever whispered:

“There has to be more than this…”

The Untamed Room™ is not coaching.
It’s a rebirth.
Your life doesn’t get better by thinking about it.
It gets better by rebuilding it from the inside out.

And the real power?

It’s not that this system works.

It’s that once you’re in it, you’ll finally feel what it means to come home to yourself… and stay there.

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