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this isn’t guilt.
it’s conditioned loyalty.

Decode the 3 roles your brain slips into when choosing yourself still feels unsafe..
 

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You’re not confused about your decision.
You’re not second-guessing the marriage.
Your brain just hasn’t caught up to your truth yet.

You want to leave with grace but your chest tightens like you’re breaking a rule you never agreed to.

One moment you feel steady.
The next, guilt hits when you see his face,
the empty chair,
the drawings on the fridge
not because you doubt yourself,
but because your nervous system learned to equate “goodness” with staying.

Your body knows it’s right.
Your conditioning still calls it betrayal.


The Untamed™ Guilt Loop Decoder reveals the exact pattern your brain runs when old loyalty collides with new truth and how to unhook before guilt drains another ounce of your peace.

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this is for the woman who chose to divorce,  but still feels like the villain.

 

You’re not leaving impulsively.
You’re not leaving recklessly.
You’re leaving like a woman who finally stopped betraying herself.
And still, the guilt hits hard.

You replay his face.
You soften your truth so others don’t think you’re cold.
You over-explain to people who’ll never understand.
You still carry the sadness you didn’t cause and that weight wasn’t meant for you.

Here’s the truth:
This isn’t guilt:  it’s learned loyalty
You were trained to stay, to fix, to make it work, even when it cost you your peace.
So when you finally choose yourself, your brain mistakes this for betrayal.

This Decoder shows you how to break the guilt loop  so you can stop carrying the blame and finally feel like the good woman you actually are.

Because if you don’t name it, guilt keeps narrating your story for you.

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you’re not overreacting. you’re over-trained to stay good.

 

You were raised to be pleasant, patient, pleasing.
So when you finally stop, your nervous system sounds the alarm.

That tight pull between your ribs? That breath you can’t release?
That’s not doubt it’s your brain trying to stay approved of.

You learned to call compliance safety.
Now your brain confuses peace with danger.

This Decoder doesn’t pathologize your guilt.
It reveals the pattern your brain runs when truth feels unsafe so you finally see why guilt keeps hijacking your peace.

Because once you can see it, you can start to change it.
And the longer you wait, the deeper that pattern roots itself in your nervous system.

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inside the guilt loop decoder, you’ll discover:

The 3 learned-loyalty roles women default to after leaving someone “good”:

  • The Fawn: “The Nurturer who still checks if he’s okay.”
  • The Fixer: “The Solver who makes everyone else’s feelings hers.”
  • The Performer: “The Image Manager keeping everyone comfortable.”

How guilt isn’t moral failure, it’s a conditioned safety loop that rewards self-abandonment.

Why sadness ≠ regret (and how your body can hold love without losing truth).

The real reason you’re still over-functioning and the re-pattern that ends it.

The internal body shift that lets you feel the freedom you already chose.

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because if you don’t see the role, you keep living by its rules.

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you don’t need more time. you need a brain that believes you.

You’re not spiraling because you’re unsure.
You’re spiraling because you’re still wired to feel guilty when you choose yourself.

This free training gives you the reframe + regulation cue to stop the loop
in 15 minutes or less.

You already made the decision.
This isn’t about clarity. It’s about integration.

Now it’s time to teach your brain what your body has known all along,
You’re allowed to trust what you want
and let it lead.

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meet the modern day therapist mogul behind it all

meet 
isabelle ulenaers

I’m not your average therapist.
Because The Untamed Room™ isn’t your average transformation.

I didn’t build this to inspire women, I built it to liberate them.

For over 20 years, I’ve worked at the intersection of psychology, trauma, nervous system healing,neurospychology and female identity reformation.

I’ve spoken on stages. Been featured in top-tier magazines and national TV shows. Worked with high-performing women, leaders, and celebrities. And helped thousands of women stop performing and start leading their lives, on their own terms.

But none of that compares to this:

I walked out of my own marriage.
Burned down a “good life” that was never my life.
And rebuilt everything, from scratch. Literally. 

This isn’t theory.
It’s not mindset fluff.
It’s not some journal-prompt healing circle.

This is the system behind every woman who’s ever whispered:

“There has to be more than this…”

The Untamed Room™ is not coaching.
It’s a rebirth.
Your life doesn’t get better by thinking about it.
It gets better by rebuilding it from the inside out.

And the real power?

It’s not that this system works.

It’s that once you’re in it, you’ll finally feel what it means to come home to yourself… and stay there.

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