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The Untamed Room is a 6-month program for women who have already decided to divorce amicably (maybe just internally),
 refuse to carry the old version of themselves into their next chapter and
are ready to wake up excited about their own life again.
This is not about leaving a marriage.
It’s about becoming the woman who never abandons herself again.
A 6-month room to find yourself again, separate clean and amicable,
watch your kids breathe again, and build a life steady, desired and unmistakably yours.
Because, if you don’t fix this at the root, you will keep living like this.
The Untamed Room runs with a small group of women.Â
When it’s full, applications close.
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February Sold Out - Applications are now open for March only 7, 2 spots left
I’m working with a small group of women who know internally, or have already decided, to divorce in an amicable way. Divorce is just the door.  If you don’t dismantle the wiring underneath this chapter,
you don’t just end a marriage. You carry the same fear, guilt and self-abandonment
into the next relationship, the next decision,
the next decade.
Inside the Untamed Room, we end old patterns and we build a post-divorce life where they feel alive, desired and fully themselves again. Waking up thinking: 'damn, this was the best decision I ever made, I f* love my life".
We build a separation that doesn't bleed into the next decade of your life.Â
This is structured, deep work. If you show up and implement, you change. If you don't, nothing happens.Â
6 months that change your life.
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Here is what we doing...
Our goal is not just to help you leave amicable: It’s to make sure you never have to live like this again.
You don’t leave a “good man” and spend the next years still looping in guilt, bracing in fear, repeating the same patterns and wondering if you ruined your life.Â
Because you can close the chapter and step into the new life,
but if you install the same subconscious programming,
you recreate the same dynamic, just with a different face.Â
And you didn’t decide to divorce just to feel slightly better.
You decided because something inside you wants more.
More honesty.
More connection.
More aliveness.
More you.
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You leave without blowing everything up and without shrinking yourself either.
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Your kids feel safe, steady, and loved… and you know you didn’t lose yourself to be a “good” mother.
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You wake up calm. You trust your decisions.
You stop asking if you’re allowed to want this.
You feel open. Feminine. Alive.You laugh again. You breathe differently.
You make plans without fear collapsing them.You don’t just survive divorce.
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 Peace. Desire. And a life that feels yours.
I AM ISABELLE..
A psychologist and neuropsychologist, and this work isn’t theoretical for me. After years of working with women in traditional therapy, one thing became obvious: understanding isn’t enough.
Real change happens when the nervous system and behaviour shift that’s what the Untamed Methodology is built on.
I chose an amicable divorce myself. I did the work. My ex is still one of my closest people. My daughter still says the way we did this is an example for others.
I’ve walked this road, through the fear, the guilt, the conversations, the nights where you wonder if you’re ruining everything. And I built a life and relationship I honestly never thought were possible for me.
Over the years, I’ve worked with thousands of women navigating divorce, identity loss, guilt, fear, and rebuilding their live faster than they thought was possible.Â
My work has been featured in interviews, podcasts, and media conversations around divorce, identity, and women choosing themselves without burning everything down.
I’m known for combining deep psychological work with real-life outcomes: clean separations, steady children, and women who don’t lose themselves again after leaving.
I now work with women who look strong on the outside - leaders, mothers, professionals - and who quietly know they can’t keep living half-alive.
Women who want to leave without blowing everything up.
Who want their kids to feel safe.
Who don’t want to carry this into the rest of their lives.
Who want to be proud of themselves and live the best possible next chapter of their life.
For over 20 years, I’ve helped women divorce amicably and build lives so aligned they never question the decision. Lives where they stop abandoning themselves and live as who they actually are, through my Untamed methodology.
And now, it could be your turn.
I have a strong reputation because I don’t take everyone.
I only work with women I know I can walk all the way through this, without shortcuts.
It’s a small intimate group and I’m looking for the right fit here.
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Unique Methodology
This unique Untamed Methodology is a mix of structured custom work and personal guidance.
The work is built brick by brick, based on neuropsychology. Conscious and subconscious. Nothing is rushed.
You’re not lost in a group. And you’re not doing this alone. I work closely with every woman inside the room. I know your story. I know the patterns that keep pulling you back.
There is structured work you move through step by step with personal direction, designed to take you all the way through.
This won't work for you if you
Are hoping this will work without actually doing the work.
Want to change him or make the relationship “good again."
Want a divorce but plan to stay emotionally stuck, guilty, or unhappy.
Want reassurance more than responsibility
Want to talk about it forever.
You want to stay in indecision
Are willing to repeat the same dynamic in a different relationship.
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You’ve decided internally, whether you’re still in the house or already divorced.
You don’t actually doubt the decision.
You doubt your right to make it.
You want an amicable, steady separation, not emotional chaos.
Care deeply about your children and want them to stay steady through this.
Who are ready to use this rupture to end old patterns for good.
Want a next life where what you’ve been missing is finally there: deep connection, desire, feeling alive again.Â
Want to feel like yourself again, feminine.
Want to build a life that actually fits the woman you've become. Desire. Peace. Depth. Power. Intimacy. Freedom.
Are willing to do the work and go all in. Know you’re the one who has to show up and you’re ready to do that.
Want to build a life where things don’t just end… they genuinely get better.
…this could be the moment everything starts to shift and life gets exciting again .
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The plan is simple.
We don’t jump ahead.
We don’t “stay fake positive.”
We don’t talk about insight and hope it lands.
We build this in sequence because without a clean foundation, nothing else holds.
You’re not confused. You’re conditioned.
And it's time to break that old loop.
Within the first weeks, the panic spikes and guilt decrease.
You stop spiraling nightly.
You feel steadier.
Phase 1: Stabilise the Core (Fear, Guilt, Old Patterns)
This is where everything actually changes.
Before boundaries. Before logistics.
Before co-parenting conversations. Before the next chapter.
We start at the root.
We work directly with:
the fear that hijacks your nervous system
the guilt that keeps you softening, explaining, over-functioning
the old roles you’ve been living inside for years without questioning
Not by talking about them. Not by “being aware.” But by rewiring them consciously and subconsciously, so your brain stops reacting like the past is still happening.
This is where the buzzing stops.
This is where you stop second-guessing yourself at night.
This is where your brain finally believes "I’m oke".Â
This is where we tackle the fear, the what if and guilt. So you feel confident in your future, in yourself, in how you will lead.Â
You'll be in control, not fear.
You will stop pleasing, bending and making yourself small.Â
You'll feel calm without needing reassurance, the feeling of “I know what I’m doing & I am allowed.” in your body, not just your head.
This phase is what makes the rest possible.
Phase 2: Boundaries That Actually Hold
Not “say no more.” Not being harder. Boundaries here are structural.They are the walls and doors of your life, built on the foundation we just stabilised.
We work with:
what you tolerate (and why you learned to tolerate it)
what you will never tolerate again
how you hold your ground when he’s disappointed or people judge you
how you stop collapsing into old niceness when it gets uncomfortable
This is where:
decisions stop wobbling
dynamics stop pulling you back
people pleasing and self-abandonment will stopÂ
you start moving forward without over-explaining
You hold your ground without becoming cold or a bitch.
You stop softening to manage other people’s discomfort.
You'll know exactly what you tolerate and never tolerate again.
You will finally give yourself a place too.Â
Your boundaries become natural. Clean.Â
No conflict just: Unshakeable.
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Phase 3: Emotional Separation (Clean, Amicable, Complete)
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This is the part most people skip and why they stay emotionally tied for years.
We don’t just “move on.” We cut the emotional cord properly.
Here we:
dismantle the old roles you played in the marriage
separate what was real gold from what was survival
release emotional responsibility that was never yours
create a clean internal ending, not just a legal one
So you can:
co-parent without charge
communicate without bracing
you don’t feel responsible for his feelings anymore.Â
forgive without self-abandoning
stay amicable without staying entangled
His behavior will not affect your emotions anymore.
This is what makes an amicable divorce actually work.
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Phase 4: Reclaim the Woman Underneath
Once the old structure is gone, we don’t rush to rebuild. We slow down and ask the real question:
Who are you underneath this all, without the roles?
Not who you were for him. Not who you became to keep the peace. Not the version that performed.
We uncover:
what you truly crave
what makes you feel alive
how desire, softness, intimacy, and self-trust come back naturally
recognise yourself in the mirror
Intimacy will feel like a world opening
This is where women say:
“I recognise myself again.”
“My love my body again.”
“I feel feminine and alive.”
"I actually had so much fun i forget how it could be"
" I trust that I can find new love again and be loved for who i actually am'
This is where you come back online.
Phase 5: Build the Life On Purpose
Only now do we build forward. Not by hoping. Not by manifesting. Not by repeating patterns in a new setting.
We design your life from the inside out:
relationships
motherhood
work
intimacy
where and how you live
Everything built on a regulated nervous system, clean identity, and aligned values.
So your life feels:
calm, not braced
alive, fun, real happiness
feminine
peaceful and expansive
you love your life
you know what you want and what makes you happy.
you’re not recovering from divorce, you’re living a life that finally fits.
You will be on the other side of this, calm, alive, desired, and certain you didn’t ruin my life.
This is where women wake up and think:
Damn. This was the best decision I ever made. I fucking love my life.Â
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Divorce is the Door.
Untamed is the life on the other side
You’ll have my guidance throughout and my Untamed methodology holding the work.
HOW THIS WORKS
You’ll have my guidance throughout and my Untamed methodology holding the work.
This is a 6-month structured container.
We move in sequence. Brick by brick.
• 6-month structured, phase-based curriculum (we move in sequence)
• Bi-weekly live group sessions for deep work and direct coaching
• Daily private Telegram access where I personally guide, respond, and recalibrate you when old patterns try to take over. This is not anonymous group chatter I know your story, your patterns, and where you tend to wobble. You can post when something is pulling you back into old patterns, and I respond with precision and direction (during weekdays).
• Private 1:1 onboarding session to map your personal roadmap
• 3-month 1:1 recalibration call to refine direction
• Monthly alignment check-ins to track measurable shifts
• Small, curated group to protect depth and individual attention
This is not open-ended therapy, not an anonymous group.
This is structured identity recalibration.
Payment plan: 6 monthly installments of $750.
This is a fixed 6-month commitment.
After that, you can continue month to month with an alumni rate, as long as you’re loving the work and seeing real change.
Many women do. Because the room is different. The women are exceptional.
And the work keeps evolving with you.
I hope you call it home for years.
Like I said, this is a small group.
I'm Looking for the right women.
So this is for you if you…
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Are a high-functioning woman who already decided, or decided internally, that your marriage is over. It doesn't matter where you are in your process, still beginning, middle or already moving out.
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Are emotionally intelligent, self-aware, and done blaming your past or your partner.
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Have carried responsibility for a long time - for your family, your children, your life - and you’re ready to carry it for yourself now.
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Are not looking for drama, chaos, or a messy exit, you want a clean, mature, truly amicable separation.
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Are willing to look at your own patterns, roles, and blind spots instead of repeating them in the next chapter.
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Take direction well, apply what’s given, and move when you commit.
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Know that you are the one who creates the outcome and you’re ready to do it properly this time.
And you know this:
You’re not afraid of responsibility.
You’re just tired of abandoning yourself.
And I will walk next to you the whole journey.
YOU DON'T JUST WANT 'A NEXT CHAPTER'
You want a life that feels like oxygen.
You want to wake up and not feel heavy.
You want to laugh again, the real kind. The loud, unfiltered, from-your-belly kind.
You want to walk into a room and feel your own presence. Not the version of you who manages everyone’s emotions. You.
You want to trust yourself so deeply that you stop second-guessing every decision in relationships.
You want to look in the mirror and think: “She’s back.”
You want your kids to feel it too. The lightness. The calm. The house that doesn’t feel tense anymore. You want dinners that feel warm. Mornings that feel soft. A mother who isn’t constantly bracing.
You want love that makes you melt. Not overfunctioning.
You want to feel feminine. Desired. Safe. Chosen.
You want to dance in your kitchen without feeling guilty for being happy.
You want to book the trip.
Say the truth.
Wear the dress.
Laugh too loud.
And one random morning, coffee in hand. Music playing, sunlight in the room. You move your hips a little. And it hits you: “Holy shit. I did it. I chose myself. And it was the best decision of my life.”
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STEP 1
Fill in the application for one of the available places.STEP 2
Right after that, you’ll be invited to book your private alignment call.
I only review applications that have a call scheduled, this keeps the process moving and respectful of both our time.STEP 3
I personally read every application before we speak.
If I feel it’s not the right fit, I’ll let you know and release the time in your calendar.
If you don’t hear from me, we meet as planned.STEP 4
On the call, we look at your situation together and feel into whether this is aligned.
If it’s a yes, we confirm your place and begin the onboarding process.
ONLY 7 2 PLACES LEFT TO START IN MARCH
Client Interviews
If you want to hear women talk about what this actually changed for them,
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