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The preparation every woman needs to divorce amicably without losing herself.
You decided: “I Want a Divorce”…
But No One Prepared You for What Happens Next:
Emotional Backlash, Guilt, Love‑Bombing,
and Old Patterns That Pull You Back In.
The Exit Era™ gives you the step‑by‑step process to stay steady, regulated, and in control even when he spirals.
Here’s how to hold your line without collapsing, caretaking, or talking yourself out of what you already know.Â
This isn’t about leaving him.
It’s about not losing yourself when you do.
And walk away clean & amicably.
This is the part most women aren't prepared for. And it's what makes the difference between leaving amicable, or looping for years.
Because no one teaches you what happens after “I want a divorce.”The emotional intensity that makes even the strongest woman question herself for a moment.
Because if you don’t know how to regulate through that moment,
your clarity can wobble.
You fall into caretaking, overexplaining, keeping the peace and the cycle resets.
 That’s where The Exit Era™ begins.
Not with strategy. With stabilization. With knowing what comes next.
With the tools that keep your brainsteady so your truth doesn’t wobble.
 This is the chapter no therapist prepares you for.
The one that decides everything.
This is why 9/10 women say after The Exit Era:
“Why didn’t anyone teach me this?”
Because most support the decision.
This prepares you for the moment that follows it.
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You’re Not Confused.
You’re Unprepared for What Comes Next.
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Here’s what no one tells you about “getting divorced”: The hardest part isn’t saying it.
It’s what happens right after.
He spirals.
He love-bombs.
He guilt-trips.
He promises everything he never did before.
And the woman who knew... feels a wobble.
You start wondering if you’re the unreasonable one.
Not because she’s wrong.
But because your nervous system whispers,
“Stay. Familiar feels safer than free.”
If you don’t know how to regulate through that moment, your clarity can soften into caretaking
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When emotions aren't regulated, they escalate,Â
and even the most amicable divorce quickly slips out of reach.
You’re not alone in this.
Thousands of women have been exactly where you are: clear in your soul, shaken in your mind. And every one of them thought they were the only one.
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The Exit Era interrupts that loop.
THE EXIT ERA™ breaks the pattern before it breaks you.
It shows you what to expect,
how to respond,
and how to stay steady in your body
so you don’t slip into rescuing, caretaking, or overexplaining.
This is the moment that decides whether you walk away clean
and rebuild your next chapter
or get pulled back into a version of yourself you’ve outgrown.
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You’ve Already Decided.
But your brain is trying to keep control.
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You already know.
But your mind is running its old programming.
And your not prepared for what comes next.
You’ve cried in the shower.
You’ve whispered the truth in the car.
You’ve rehearsed the words a thousand times.
Now you’re ready to say it out loud,Â
or maybe you already have ...
And suddenly your stomach drops,
your chest tightens,
and a small part of you wonders if you can stay steady once the truth is out.
The real question isn’t:
 “Should I leave?”
It’s:
“How do I stay grounded when he reacts like his world is ending?”
Because that’s the moment where most women wobble.
Not because they don’t know the truthÂ
but because no one taught them how to hold it.
The Exit Era™ prepares you for the moment after the truth is spoken; the moment where love-bombing, guilt-shifting, and sudden promises can pull even the strongest woman back into a pattern she's already outgrown.
The Exit Era™ is the manual for that moment.
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I’m Ready To Learn How →
Most women who slip back say:
“No one prepared me for what happens after I say it.”
That won’t be your story.
The hardest part isn’t telling him you want to divorce. Nor Deciding.
it’s the pull that comes after it.
The promises.
The intensity.
The sudden sweetness.
The doubt.
Don’t walk into the most defining moment of your life unprepared.
This is your roadmap for staying grounded, steady, and self-ledÂ
even when he reacts, shifts, or suddenly becomes the man you always wished he’d be.
The Exit Era™ prepares you for the moment that changes everything:
the moment after the truth is spoken.
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Say THE WORDS.Â
Feel them in your bones.
Be the woman who doesn’t flinch when he tries to pulls, love-bombs, pleads, or falls apart.
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This is not therapy.
This is not theory.
This is your exit strategy because if you’re not prepared, the pull-back wins.
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This is the missing foundation no one teaches the one that keeps you steady, no matter what he does.
You need a nervous system that can hold the moment.
A body that stays steady.
A mind that doesn’t wobble.
A truth that doesn’t shake.
Because the moment after “I’m done”, that’s the test.
And if you’re not ready for the next days, you’ll get pulled into patterns you’re already outgrowing.
Inside The Exit ErA, you’ll learn how to:
✅ Stay grounded even when he reacts and know exactly what to do.
âś… Hold your line with a steady chest; no rescuing, no managing, no emotional CPR
âś… Sleep without your mind looping
âś… Speak clearly without guilt, fear, or overexplaining
âś… Stop caretaking his emotions
âś… Keep your truth anchored in your body even when he love-bombs or throws intensity your way
âś… Exit clean. Amicably. Not reactive. Not chaotic.
You’ll leave with confidence, amicably.
Without wobble.
Without confusion.
Without circling back.
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What You Get Inside The Exit Era
THE PLAY-BY-PLAY BREAKDOWN VIDEO MODULES
Everything that happens in the first minutes, hours, and days, weeks after
“I want a divorce”; broken down so you know exactly what to expect, what’s normal, what’s manipulation, and how to stay steady when he reacts.
→ This removes the panic that makes women wobble.
EXACT RESPONSE SCRIPTS
Know exactly what to say when he cries, rages, love-bombs, or guilt-trips. One sentence. One breath.
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CLEAN DIVORCE ROADMAP
Your personal guide through every stage from “I’m thinking about it” to “I already said it and now it’s chaos.” Know exactly how to move, what to expect, and how to handle him when he flips the script.
→ No more freezing, no more emotional CPR
IN-THE-MOMENT RESET
A 2-minute subconscious rewiring exercise, this stabilization practice you can use instantly when your chest tightens, he texts, you feel like crying,
or your body wants to crumble. These are the exact tools I use with 1:1 clients in real-time divorce moments.
→ This keeps you rooted instead of spiraling.
GUIDED WORKBOOK (Downloadable + Fillable)
Put your clarity on paper. Use it to prep, calm your nervous system, and plan your next steps without spiraling.
REAL-LIFE MOMENTS YOU’LL BE READY FOR:
âś” When you doubt your decision
✔ When he cries or becomes emotional
âś” When he promises to change overnight
✔ When he says “You’re breaking our family”
âś” When guilt rises in your chest
âś” When the familiar pull makes you want to go back
âś” When you worry how the kids will respond
✔ When your stomach drops right before taking the next step
✔ When he texts “we need to talk”
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This Isn’t About Coping.
It’s About Emotional Recoding.
The Exit Era™ is powered by The UNTAMED™ Method a proven system rooted in neuroscience, behavioral psychology, and emotional identity recoding.
Created by Isabelle, a globally recognized psychologist and nervous system expert with 20+ years of clinical and transformational experience. She helped 1500+ women navigate clean divorces rebuilding an amazing post-divorce life. This is not theory. This is tested, raw, real-world strategy.
You’re not learning how to cope.
You’re learning how to regulate in real time so no guilt spiral, no love-bomb, no emotional ambush can hijack your truth again.
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You’re Not Leaving Him.
You’re leaving the version of you who kept carrying the relationship.
 You’ve always been the steady one. The strong one.
The fixer.
The women who held it all.
But this moment?
It’s not about holding him together.
It’s about holding yourself.
You’re not “abandoning” anyone.
You’re exiting cleanly, finally listening to yourself,Â
and returning to the woman you were before you started carrying the relationship on your back.
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It’s Not the Leaving.
It’s the Emotional Aftershock.
“What if I collapse?”
You won’t. You’ll learn how to ground, breathe, and move, no matter how he reacts.
“What if he promises he’ll change?”
You’ll understand exactly why he says it and why it isn’t truth, it’s pattern..
“What if he manipulates me again?”
He may try. And this time, you’ll be steady enough to see it clearly and not collapse into the old role.
“What if I’ve left before and went back?”
Then this time, you’ll have the body-based tools and clarity to stay out, anchored in your nervous system, not just your mind.
You don’t want World War 3.
You want a clean divorce.
You’re done with the drama, the emotional mess, and walking on eggshells.
Yes. This is made for you. A clean, clear way through, without losing yourself.
"Is this for you?"
✔You’ve already decided, but your body still wobbles
✔You want to tell him — or you already did — but the familiar pull keeps trying to reel you back in
✔You fear hurting him and slipping into emotional CPR
✔You know he’ll react intensely, and you want to stay grounded when he does
✔You want a clean, amicable
✔You’ve always been the steady one, the one who holds everything
âś” You feel stuck, one foot in, one foot out?
You just want to feel like you again: strong, steady, and in control?
Then yes. This will absolutely work for you.
Because women like you don’t need more reassurance. You need to feel safe in your own knowing.
"Is this for you?"
✔ You’ve already decided, but your body still wobbles
✔ You want to tell him — or you already did — but the familiar pull keeps trying to reel you back in
✔ You fear hurting him and slipping into emotional CPR
✔ You know he’ll react intensely, and you want to stay grounded when he does
✔ You want a clean, amicable divorce
✔ You’ve always been the steady one, the one who holds everything, but you don't feel prepared for this storm.
âś” You feel stuck, one foot in, one foot out?
This Is for the Woman Who Wants to Handle This Well.
With clarity, composure, and respect without burning bridges or betraying herself.
For women who care about how they leave,
not just that they leave.
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IF YOU’RE NOT PREPARED FOR ROUND TWO.
THAT’S WHERE WOMEN COLLAPSE
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The moment you say it:
“I want a divorce”,
everything shifts.
Not because you’ve left.
But because he won’t let you.
He’ll charm.
He’ll plead.
He’ll twist.
And if you don’t know how to regulate through the storm, how to regulate emotions and what to expect,
you’ll slide right back into the pattern you swore you were done with.
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That’s the cost of not being ready.
• You start second-guessing what you know is true
• You soften your boundaries to keep the peace
• You over-explain, over-give, over-accommodate
• You delay decisions that should be clean
• You see him sad and you stay stuck
• You try to “be kind” and end up abandoning yourself
Every woman who wasn’t prepared says the same thing:
“I wasn’t ready for how he reacted.”
This is the moment that shapes your entire next chapter.
You don’t need more courage.
You need regulation + strategy.
You’ll get both inside The Exit Era.
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Trusted by more than 1,000 women who refused to go back.
They didn’t just download it — they left without going ba
This is what changes when you’re prepared.
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If you’re here reading this, it means your peace is already costing you too much. Don’t wait until you’re too emotionally exhausted to make a clear decision. One clear step today saves 6 months of spiraling tomorrow.
one decision that costs less than a lawyer’s hour… and saves you thousands in stress, time, and emotional detours.
You’ve already said it to yourself:
“I can’t do this anymore.”
Now you’re ready to walk it out
steady, grounded, and no longer pullable.
He’ll have his reaction.
He’ll try every familiar pattern.
Your work isn’t to manage himÂ
it’s to stay anchored in yourself.
The Exit Era™ is the only process that keeps your clarity intact
in the exact moment most women wobble.
You don’t need more courage.
You don’t need more time.
You need to know exactly what happens next,Â
so you're prepared for what comes, not reacting to it.Â
Because you wouldn't walk into a labyrinth without a map,
Divorce is no different.Â
You need the Exit Era.
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meet the modern day therapist mogul behind it all
MEETÂ
Isabelle Ulenaers
I’m not your average therapist.
Because The Untamed Room™ isn’t your average transformation.
I didn’t build this to inspire women, I built it to liberate them.
For over 20 years, I’ve worked at the intersection of psychology, trauma, nervous system healing,neurospychology and female identity reformation.
I’ve spoken on stages. Been featured in top-tier magazines and national TV shows. Worked with high-performing women, leaders, and celebrities. And helped thousands of women stop performing and start leading their lives, on their own terms.
But none of that compares to this:
I walked out of my own marriage.
Burned down a “good life” that was never my life.
And rebuilt everything, from scratch. Literally.Â
This isn’t theory.
It’s not mindset fluff.
It’s not some journal-prompt healing circle.
This is the system behind every woman who’s ever whispered:
“There has to be more than this…”
The Untamed Room™ is not coaching.
It’s a rebirth.
Your life doesn’t get better by thinking about it.
It gets better by rebuilding it from the inside out.
And the real power?
It’s not that this system works.
It’s that once you’re in it, you’ll finally feel what it means to come home to yourself… and stay there.
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