Isabelle Ulenaers
Psychologist. For the woman who already knows.
You've decided to divorce. Now comes the part nobody warns you about.
Tonight, 23:42
He's suddenly changed??
Like he's literally love-bombing me now
Things are so peaceful. Maybe he really is changing
I've told him twice. He just won't accept it
I hear this every week. You didn't make the wrong decision. Nobody prepared you for what happens next.
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A message I received
I've sat with women in this exact moment for more than 20 years. The ones who come out steady aren't braver. They just knew what was coming.
Imagine hearing "I'll change" and not doubting yourself for a second.
You don't need what you think you need
More courage
One more conversation
For him to understand, or agree
To stop feeling guilty first
You need to know what's coming, what to say, and what to do next.
What I want you to see
His reaction feels like a sign. It's a pattern.
Men react to "I want a divorce" in six common ways. Each one pulls at you differently and needs a different response. Once you see which one it is, you stop mistaking it for a reason to go back.
See the crying, promises and love-bombing coming before they hit.
Spot his type and use my word-for-word scripts.
Calm the guilt in your body and keep moving.
Messages women send me
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Everything I'd tell you if you sat across from me
What happens after "I want a divorce", stage by stage
The six types of ex and the response that fits his
Word-for-word scripts for when he cries, blames or bargains
Moving forward without his permission
Guided tapping, including the one I use before hard conversations
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Especially for you. He won't accept it, or suddenly he's changed, and now you doubt yourself. This is where I help you stay steady.
Then you prepare first: what may happen, how he might react, how to stay grounded.
Wherever you are right now
This is where most women get stuck.
This is where months disappear. Where it gets harder, not easier. Where you start doubting what you knew for sure.
You don't want a fight in court. But you don't want to keep waiting forever either.
This is the preparation you need to leave as cleanly as possible.
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Why I made this
For 20+ years I've sat with women in this exact moment. They weren't struggling with the decision. They were struggling with what came after.
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What really happens after "I want a divorce"
The six types of ex and the response for each
My word-for-word script vault
Moving forward without his permission
Guided tapping and your workbook
Bonus: the pre-conversation tapping I use with clients before hard talks. Listen to it before you sit down with him.
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Questions women ask me
He hasn't really done anything wrong. Is this still for me?
Yes, especially then. You don't need a villain to be allowed to leave. This helps you leave a good man without making either of you the bad guy.
I've been in therapy. Is this still for me?
Yes. Therapy helps you understand why. This shows you what to do in the moment itself, when he's crying at the kitchen table.
Will I have time for this?
Yes. [REAL ANSWER: total length, short lessons, watch on your phone whenever you have a quiet moment.]
I want to keep things friendly. Will this help?
Yes. Amicable doesn't mean you keep swallowing yourself. It means staying steady, so you don't end up in a fight you never wanted.
You already did the hardest part. You know.
Let me help you make sure what comes next doesn't pull you back.
"Yesterday was our daughter's graduation. My ex was there. Our families were there. Just two parents being proud of their daughter."
Christine, a woman I worked with. This is what a clean exit can look like.
With you,
Isabelle
P.S. If you're reading this late at night after another conversation that went in circles, this is exactly who I made it for.
