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The Untamed Room is for women who want to divorce
and feel, “damn… this was the best decision I ever made.”

Who wake up and feel calm. Certain. Clear.
Who trust themselves again.

Not the version of you lying awake replaying everything.
Not waking up with that drop in your stomach anymore…

This is for the woman who refuses to leave her marriage…
and lose herself in the process.

You don’t just want out.
You want to feel like yourself again, alive.

And build a life that actually fits who you are.
A life where you can breathe again.
Where your kids settle and thrive.
Where everything finally feels like it makes sense.

 Divorce alone doesn’t create that life.
Because if nothing changes inside you
you carry the same fears, the same doubt, the same weight…
into your next chapter.

The Untamed Room is where that changes.

It runs with a small group of women. 
When it’s full, applications close.

Private group - Application only 

March is Sold Out - applications are now open for April. 

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Submitting an application doesn’t commit you to anything. It simply lets us see if this room is the right fit for you.

I’m working with a small group of women who don’t just want to divorce
they want to build a life they’re wildly in love with. 
A life where they can look themselves in the mirror and think,
“I’m back.”

Divorce is just the door.

If you don’t dismantle what’s underneath this chapter,
you don’t just end a marriage.

You don’t just end a marriage.

You carry it with you.
Into your next relationship.
Your next decision.
Your next chapter.
 

Inside The Untamed Room, that’s the part we change.

That’s where everything shifts. 

We don’t just end a marriage we end the patterns that kept you there.

So you build a life where you feel alive again.
Desired. Fully yourself.

Where you wake up and think:
“damn… this was the best decision I ever made.”
“I love my life.”

This is the part most women never get to.
And you already feel… that you’re not here for “almost better.”

In six months…
you trust yourself again.
You feel proud.
Like… I actually did this.
There’s no doubt left.

Just a quiet knowing:
this was the best decision of my life.

The Untamed Room
A guided process to move from decision → to fully living it.
This is the moment that changes everything.

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Here is what we doing...

This is not about leaving nicely.
It’s about never ending up here again and creating a life you fall in love with. 

You don’t leave a “good man” and spend the next years doubting if you made a mistake.

You don’t want to leave… and feel worse after.

The moment you say it, everything shifts.
That’s where most women collapse.

Because you can close the chapter and step into the new life,

But if nothing changes underneath,
you recreate the same dynamic.
Just with a different face.

And you didn’t decide to divorce just to feel slightly better.
You decided because something inside you wants more.

More truth.
More self-trust.
More aliveness.
More you.

  • You leave without blowing everything up and without shrinking yourself either.

  • Your kids feel safe, steady, and loved… and you know you didn’t lose yourself to be a “good” mother.

  • You wake up calm. You trust your decisions.
    You stop asking if you’re allowed to want this.

  • You feel open. Feminine. Alive.

  • You laugh again. You breathe differently.

  • You make plans without fear collapsing them.

  • You don’t just survive divorce.
    You come back to yourself.

  •  Peace. Desire. And a life that feels yours.

    Because,
    This is who you are.
    This just brings her back.

I AM ISABELLE..

A psychologist and neuropsychologist, and this work isn’t theoretical for me. After years of working with women in traditional therapy, one thing became obvious: understanding isn’t enough.
Real change happens when the nervous system and behaviour shift that’s what the Untamed Methodology is built on.

I chose an amicable divorce myself. I did the work. My ex is still one of my closest people. My daughter still says the way we did this is an example for others.

I’ve walked this road, through the fear, the guilt, the conversations, the nights where you wonder if you’re ruining everything. And I built a life and relationship I honestly never thought were possible for me.

Over the years, I’ve worked with thousands of women through this. And I see the same shift happen, faster than they expect.

My work has been featured in interviews, podcasts, and media around divorce and identity.

I combine deep psychological work with real-life outcomes: clean separations and women who don’t lose themselves again, finally feeling alive and deeply happy.

I now work with women who look strong on the outside - leaders, mothers, professionals - and who quietly know they can’t keep living half-alive.

Women who want to leave without blowing everything up.
Who want their kids to feel safe.
Who don’t want to carry this into the rest of their lives.
Who want to be proud of themselves and live the best possible next chapter of their life.

For over 20 years, I’ve helped women divorce amicably and build lives so aligned they never question the decision. Lives where they stop abandoning themselves and live as who they actually are, through my Untamed methodology.

And now, it could be your turn.

I don’t work with everyone.
I only work with women I know I can walk all the way through this, without shortcuts.

It’s a small intimate group and I’m looking for the right fit here.
  

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This is simply the first step. You’re not committing to anything, just exploring whether this room is right for you. 
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Unique Methodology

You don’t need more insight.
You need to become a woman who actually holds her decision and builds the life she craves.

This is where that happens.

The Untamed Methodology is a mix of structured work and personal guidance.

This unique Untamed Methodology is a mix of structured custom work and personal guidance.

This work goes deeper than surface change.
We change what’s actually driving you.

You’re not lost in a group. And you’re not doing this alone. I work closely with every woman inside the room. I see exactly where you lose yourself…
and where you’re ready to stop.

There is structured work you move through step by step with personal direction, designed to take you all the way through.

This won't work for you if you

This won’t work if you’re hoping something changes without you changing.

 Want a divorce but plan to stay emotionally stuck, guilty, or unhappy.

Want reassurance more than responsibility

Want to talk about it forever.

This works for a very specific woman.

Not the one waiting.
Not the one hoping someone else changes.

The one who knows:
if something shifts,  it starts with her.

But If you 

You’ve already decided.
Even if you haven’t fully moved yet.

You feel the pull and the hesitation around the decision.

You want this to be clean.
Steady.
Not chaos.

You care about your children.
And you refuse to lose yourself to be a “good” mother.

You’re ready to use this moment to end the pattern of ghosting yourself. not repeat it.

Want a next life where what you’ve been missing is finally there: deep connection, desire, feeling alive & feminine again. 

Want to build a life that actually fits the woman you've become. Desire. Peace. Depth. Power. Intimacy. Freedom.

Want to build a life where things don’t just end… they genuinely get better.

This is the moment.

It either changes here.
Or it repeats.

Your Next Step.
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The plan is simple.

We don’t jump ahead.
We don’t “stay fake positive.”
We don’t talk about insight and hope it lands.

We don’t rush this.
We build it right, so it actually holds.

You’re not confused. You’re conditioned.
And you’re ready to be done with that.


Within the first weeks, the panic spikes and guilt decrease.
You stop spiraling nightly.
You feel steadier.

Phase 1: Stabilise the Core (Fear, Guilt, Old Patterns)

This is where everything calms down. Where your body finally stops acting like something is wrong.

This is where everything actually changes.

Before boundaries. Before logistics.
Before co-parenting conversations. Before the next chapter.

We start at the root.

We work directly with:
the fear that takes over
the guilt that keeps you softening, explaining, over-functioning
the old roles you’ve been living inside for years without questioning

Not by talking about them. Not by “being aware.” we make sure your brain stops reacting like the past is still happening and it stops running your decisions

This is where the buzzing stops.
This is where you stop second-guessing yourself at night.
This is where your brain finally believes "I’m oke". 
This is where we tackle the fear, the what if and guilt. So you feel confident in your future, in yourself, in how you will lead. 
You'll be in control, not fear.
You stop disappearing in moments that matter
You'll feel calm without needing reassurance, the feeling of “I know what I’m doing & I am allowed.”  in your body, not just your head.

This phase is what makes the rest possible.

Phase 2: Boundaries That Actually Hold

Not “say no more.” Not being harder. Boundaries here are structural.They are the walls and doors of your life, built on the foundation we just stabilised.

We work with:

what you tolerate (and why you learned to tolerate it)
what you will never tolerate again
how you hold your ground when he’s disappointed or people judge you
how you stop collapsing into old niceness when it gets uncomfortable

This is where:
decisions stop wobbling
dynamics stop pulling you back
you stop disappearing in moments that matter
you start moving forward without over-explaining
You hold your ground without becoming cold or a bitch.
You stop softening to manage other people’s discomfort.
You'll know exactly what you tolerate and never tolerate again.
You will finally give yourself a place too. 

Your boundaries become natural. Clean. 
No conflict just: Unshakeable.

 

Phase 3: Emotional Separation (Clean, Amicable, Complete)

 

This is the part most people skip and why they stay emotionally tied for years.
We don’t just “move on.” You’re no longer emotionally tied to him.

Here we:
dismantle the old roles you played in the marriage
separate what was real gold from what was survival
release emotional responsibility that was never yours
create a clean internal ending, not just a legal one

So you can:

co-parent without charge
communicate without bracing
you don’t feel responsible for his feelings anymore. 
forgive without self-abandoning
stay amicable without staying entangled
His behavior will not affect your emotions anymore.

This is what makes an amicable divorce actually work.

 

Phase 4: Reclaim the Woman Underneath

Once the old structure is gone, we don’t rush to rebuild. We slow down and ask the real question:

Who are you underneath this all, without the roles?

Not who you were for him. Not who you became to keep the peace. Not the version that performed.

We uncover:

what you truly crave
what makes you feel alive
how desire, softness, intimacy, and self-trust come back naturally
recognise yourself in the mirror
Intimacy will feel like a world opening

This is where women say:

“I recognise myself again.”
“My love my body again.”
“I feel feminine and alive.”
"I actually had so much fun i forget how it could be"
" I trust that I can find new love again and be loved for who i actually am'

You say you’re done… then soften 48 hours later
That stops here

This is where you come back online. Without this, nothing holds
This isn’t becoming someone new.
This is remembering who you are.

Phase 5: Build the Life On Purpose

Only now do we build forward. We build a life that actually fits you.
We design your life from the inside out:

relationships
motherhood
work
intimacy
where and how you live

Everything built on a regulated nervous system, clean identity, and aligned values.

So your life feels:

calm, not braced
alive, fun, real happiness
feminine
peaceful and expansive
you love your life
you know what you want and what makes you happy.
you’re not recovering from divorce, you’re living a life that finally fits.

You will be on the other side of this, calm, alive, desired, and certain you didn’t ruin my life.

This is where women wake up and think:

Damn. This was the best decision I ever made. I fucking love my life. 

UNTAMED ROOM™️ BONUS STACK: 

BONUS #1:
The Exit ERA:

 

Understand the phases he goes through after you decide, the reactions, the shifts, the push-pull,
so you’re not caught off guard or pulled back into old dynamics.

BONUS #2:
She MOVES FIRST:

 
She Moves First is the only 15-day audio for the woman who has decided to divorce and wants to act on it.  You need a map that trains your brain to move with what you already know is true. 

BONUS #3: 
THE KIDS CONVERSATION GUIDE: 

What to say.
How to say it.
So your kids feel safe and you don’t carry guilt.

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Divorce is the Door.
Untamed is the life on the other side

 

This is how you step into it

You’ll have my guidance throughout and my Untamed methodology holding the work.

You choose how you step in.

2 Options:
$590/ 7 months.
or
1 x $4200

By the end of month 1, we both feel it,
so there’s a 30 -day ‘Love it or leave it’ period.  
If it’s not aligned, we walk away clean. No pressure. No force. We'll just tear up the agreement and walk away as friends.

If we are both good, we move into full 7 months. We move in sequence. Brick by brick.

I work with a small, curated group.
So you’re seen. Known. And actually led.

This is not open-ended therapy, not an anonymous group.

After the 7 months, you can continue month to month with an alumni rate, as long as you’re loving the work and seeing real change.

Most women stay.
Because the work evolves with them.
And the room becomes part of who they are.

I hope you call it home for years.

Like I said, this is a small group.
I’m not looking for everyone.
I’m looking for the right women.

 

So this is for you if you…

    1. This is for you if you’ve already decided.
      Even if you haven’t fully moved yet.

    2. You’re self-aware.
      You don’t blame. You take ownership.

    3. You’ve carried a lot for a long time…
      and you’re ready to finally carry yourself.

    4. You don’t want chaos.
      You want this to be clean. Steady. Done right.

    5. You are done ghosting yourself and want to bring your true self back to life.

    6. And you know:
      if something changes, it’s because you did.

    You’re not afraid of responsibility.
    You’re just tired of abandoning yourself.
    And you’re done doing that.

YOU DON'T JUST WANT 'A NEXT CHAPTER'

You want a life that feels like oxygen.
You want to wake up and not feel heavy.

You want to laugh again, the real kind. The loud, unfiltered, from-your-belly kind.

You want to walk into a room and feel your own presence. Not the version of you who manages everyone’s emotions. You.

You want to trust yourself so deeply that you stop second-guessing every decision in relationships.

You want to look in the mirror and think: “She’s back.”

You want your kids to feel it too. The lightness. The calm. The house that doesn’t feel tense anymore. You want dinners that feel warm. Mornings that feel soft. A mother who isn’t constantly bracing.

You want love that makes you melt. Not overfunctioning.
You want to feel feminine. Desired. Safe. Chosen.

You want to dance in your kitchen without feeling guilty for being happy.
You want to book the trip.
Say the truth.
Wear the dress.
Laugh too loud.

And one random morning, coffee in hand. Music playing, sunlight in the room. You move your hips a little. And it hits you: “Holy shit. I did it. I chose myself. And it was the best decision of my life.”

This isn’t a dream.
This is what happens when you finally choose yourself fully.

When You Apply  

  • STEP 1
    Fill in the application for one of the available places.

    STEP 2
    Right after that, you’ll be invited to book your private alignment call.
    I only review applications that have a call scheduled, this keeps the process moving and respectful of both our time.

    STEP 3
    I personally read every application before we speak.
    If I feel it’s not the right fit, I’ll let you know and release the time in your calendar.
    If you don’t hear from me, we meet as planned.

    STEP 4
    On the call, we look at your situation together and feel into whether this is aligned.
    If it’s a yes, we confirm your place and begin the onboarding process.

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LET'S TALK
This is simply the first step. You’re not committing to anything, just exploring whether this room is right for you.

 

If you choose yourself,
you choose to really live.
And you find yourself in a life so real, so yours,
that even your ordinary days
feel like something you once hoped for.

Client Interviews

If you want to hear women talk about what this actually changed for them,
you can listen to a client conversations here. 

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